You've been here a few weeks. You’re feeling tired and could really do with a night in, but you’re feeling lots of pressure to be ‘making the most of it’, especially after not being able to do anything fun for such a long time.
If you’re looking for a quieter night, the chances are that others will feel the same. Suggest a film night, play a board game or all cook dinner together. Things will settle down as the term goes on and you’ll find a routine.
If you’re living in uni accommodation, you may also be missing home. Getting used to living with other people can take a while, and it’s absolutely OK to feel that way. Our Support and Wellbeing team and the Kent Students' Union Advice Service is there to support you and help you adjust to living independently, so don't be afraid to get in touch with them if you're struggling.
Keep in touch with your family and friends at home to reassure yourself they are OK - maybe FaceTime or call once a week. It may be tempting to go home every weekend, but you should give yourself time to get to know your house/flatmates and the campus as this will help you feel more settled.
Make sure your room is comfortable and feels like ‘yours’. Bring your duvet and pillows, cushions, photos, a favourite lamps…all of these will make your room more cosy and familiar. There's usually a poster sale in Welcome Week too.